Love | Talking to Our Children About Wildfires
Sending love to your little ones. It seems like I've held and hugged Kaleb + Logan extra long these past few days . . . and that feels so so good!
Wildfires can be a daunting topic for children, especially when they see images on the news or hear adults discussing the potential dangers. As parents, it's crucial to approach these conversations with care, ensuring that children feel safe and supported. Here’s how you can effectively talk to your kids about wildfires:
Stay Informed and Calm
Before initiating a conversation with your child, make sure you are well-informed about the current situation. Understanding the facts will help you answer questions accurately and calmly. Children often take cues from adults, so maintaining a composed demeanor can help reassure them.
Create a Safe Space for Questions
Encourage your children to express their thoughts and feelings. Let them know that it's okay to ask questions, no matter how big or small. By providing a safe space for dialogue, you allow them to process their emotions and gain a clearer understanding of the situation.
Use Age-Appropriate Language
Tailor your explanations to suit your child's age and comprehension level. Younger children may need simpler explanations, while older kids might appreciate more detailed information. Avoid using overly technical terms or graphic descriptions that might cause unnecessary fear.
Focus on Safety and Preparedness
Reassure your children by discussing the safety measures your family has in place. Explain the importance of emergency plans and how these plans help keep everyone safe. Involve them in simple preparedness activities, like packing an emergency kit, to give them a sense of control and involvement.
Highlight the Helpers
Emphasize the role of firefighters, emergency responders, and community helpers who work tirelessly to manage wildfires and protect communities. This can provide a sense of hope and demonstrate the power of teamwork and resilience.
Normalize Their Feelings
Let your children know that it’s normal to feel scared, anxious, or confused about wildfires. Share your own feelings in a way that is appropriate, showing them that it’s okay to have emotions and that you’re there to support them.
Provide Additional Resources
For more support, consider utilizing social-emotional and psychological resources. Books, videos, and online materials designed for children can offer additional comfort and understanding. Schools and community centers may also have programs or counselors available to help children process their feelings.
I also love the following resource links.
Sesame Street Family Guide for Fires
PBS SoCal: How to Talk to Kids About Wildfires
